Hailey, my husband reaches orgasm way too soon for my liking. Anything I can do to keep him up longer?

Many of us have met a Quick Dick. Beyond tantric sex (the method made famous by Sting), which can take years to master, try these: 1. First and foremost, be open with him about your desire for longer sessions. He has to want to take his time. 2. Double up the condom. The dulled sensation will ensure that it takes him at least a few minutes longer. 3. Stretch out the foreplay. You’ll be fired up before he fires off, and you’ll both be satisfied. 4. Try Kegel exercises, the sex workout for men and women.

Hailey, how do I tell my partner about my foot fetish?

This is one of the most common fetishes, so don’t be shy. Your best bet: Just tell her flat out. Ask her to wear a pair of plastic porno stilettos to bed or to paint her toenails fire-engine red, or whatever your thing is. If your thing, however, involves rogering her arches, I’d take it more seriously and have a fully clothed chat.

Hailey, my formerly trim guy has developed quite the gut. How do I tell him gently that it’s a turnoff during sex?

There is no gentle way to let him know. Try suggesting that the two of you eat healthier, drink less and work out more. If he remains Homeresque, short of being totally honest with him, you may have to come to terms with the fact that as people age, their bodies change. Pay attention to what it is about him that turns you on rather than what turns you off, or you’ll be on a fast train to No-Sexville.

Hailey, any sex toys you can recommend for my partner and I?

Try dildos and vibrators, for example, which come in many forms and sizes. Some are designed to reach the woman’s G-spot or a man’s “A-spot” (prostate in layman’s terms). And don’t forget cock rings. Talk about lord of the rings: They restrict the blood that has entered the penis from draining back out again, thus prolonging erection. A good sex shop can offer a plethora of information and guidance; if you’re too shy to go in, Come As You Are delivers discreetly across Canada (go to their website comeasyouare.com).